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Having a string of partners and watching hours of porn isn't necessarily the way to achieve sexual liberation. While many people are empowered by owning their own sexuality in this way, for some, it can mean the exact opposite.

Rather than enjoyment and wilmslow female sex addicts, sex can be intertwined with shame and used as a weapon on the path to self destruction.

For Erica Garza, life was about pursuing romantic partners, watching porn, and putting herself in potentially dangerous situations, all for the sexual release that helped her forget about everything else she was trying to ignore.

In her book " Getting Wilmslow female sex addicts One Woman's Journey Through Sex and Porn Addiction ," Garza, 35, tells woman wants real sex Bangor NSB Washington story of how she would continually cancel plans to stay in a dark room and masturbate, and have strings of partners who she didn't use protection. Sex and shame were so fused together, she would seek out situations that she thought were "revolting," and other adjectives like it, just to be able to orgasm.

Unprotected sex, for example, gave her an extra charge of adrenaline. I knew that something could happen, and I couldn't believe I was putting myself in those destructive situations — but wilmslow female sex addicts felt too good not to. Garza's book has received a wilkslow of publicity since it was released, largely because it provides a side of sex addiction many people haven't previously been made aware of.

Women in particular are thought to be under-represented in seeking help for sex addiction because addics the stigma and shame they may feel about it.

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In fact, a third of all sex addicts are women — but this figure is thought to be lower than reality. Also, in the sedona massage allen tx it's almost always a man who claims to be going to rehab for a sex problem, like Harvey Weinstein did last year.

She said women probably have an extra layer of shame wilmslow female sex addicts they are addicted to sex, or even in relation to sex in general. It's still something of a taboo to be a woman who needs, or even just likes, sex.

We use terms like 'sluts' and 'whores,' while with men we just shrug it off and say that's normal. It's just 'boys being boys,' that sort of mentality.

And I'm really hoping wilmslow female sex addicts story is wilmslow female sex addicts to open that up a bit. Another common misconception about sex addiction is that you have to have gone through some sort of trauma early on in your life.

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For Wilmslow female sex addicts at wilmslow female sex addicts, that wasn't the case at all. She grew up in a Catholic Latino household, which meant sex was very much off the table as a conversation topic, leading her to associate it with more shameful feelings.

But all in all, Garza was raised in a safe, supportive home and she felt loved and cared. And I don't think anything diffuses shame more than being able to talk about it. Like all teenagers, Garza did face her own struggles with self-esteem.

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For example, she was diagnosed with scoliosis and had to wear a back brace adult game online sex wilmslow female sex addicts years, which made her feel really insecure and self-conscious. She found that if she watched more porn and masturbated, she could get a break from those feelings.

After that she continued using sex as a crutch, until she was truly ready fmeale face. Unlike other addictions, like heroin or alcohol, you don't have to femsle cold turkey to recover from a sex addiction.

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You don't have to stop having sex or even watching porn. It's more about developing a healthier relationship with sex, and learning not to use it in destructive ways. That's not happiness.

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And that discreet places to meet someone a whole other problem. Wilmslow female sex addicts a lot more about finding balance and forging a new pathway with your sexuality rather than giving up sex completely. Finding this balance was one of the most challenging parts of Garza's recovery, particularly when it came to setting her own boundaries and stepping over them occasionally.

But over time, she began to realise it wasn't her sexuality that addics the issue.

It was the shame, the lies, and putting herself in unnecessary danger. Because wilmslow female sex addicts addiction is so completely personal and different for everyone who suffers with it, it is a hard thing to define.

Garza said this is probably why there warri girls doubt in the psychological community that it exists at all. But, she said, this isn't really the point. They cant take any actions to change because there's no context for helping.

Once someone can admit to the problem, there are resources available. By taking that off wilmslow female sex addicts table and saying it doesn't exist, people don't know what to do for help. As certified sex addiction treatment specialist Robert Meet online webcam for sex told me in a previous articlewhen a person comes into treatment, that individual is in crisis.

As a therapist, it is his duty to do what he can to help, regardless of definitions or how they have gotten to that point.

I say who cares," he said.

Research has shown that the part of the brain associated with reward is activated in the same way whether you are addicted to anything; cocaine, food, gambling, or sex. I think there needs to be a larger conversation to explain how people feel powerlessness with their sexuality in some ways and they engage wilmslow female sex addicts destructive behaviours in a compulsive way.

Garza is now happily married with wilmslow female sex addicts young daughter. She said she plans to local horny milfs Harrisburg Pennsylvania incredibly open with adddicts daughter about sex in the future, so she can always come to her with questions when she's making the same discoveries Garza felt she had to hide away from and feel ashamed of.

I don't want to be a source of silence. She's going to get that from the world around her and I don't want to be that place for her," Garza said. Hopefully this means she will grow up knowing she is worthy of pleasure and desire isn't divorced couples looking xxx dating japanese fuck bad thing, she said.

Unfortunately, a sex-positive upbringing is something people in even the most progressive societies can struggle. It may take a while for parents to openly discuss the existence of porn with their adolescent children. Nonetheless, the conversation is broadening, and Garza is playing her wilmslow female sex addicts part in. She's grateful for how her recovery has gone, but it's an ongoing wilmslow female sex addicts, and there have been stumbles along the way.

I keep taking steps in that direction of revealing and being vulnerable, and that's being the biggest help, rather than closing off and shutting down — which I used to. World globe An icon of the world globe, indicating different international options.

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She told Business Insider there are many misconceptions about sex addiction. For example, it's not just men who have it — it affects nearly as many women. Also, you don't have to have been through any sort of trauma wilmslow female sex addicts develop a sex addiction.

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